Add BackendType for standalone backends

Add BackendType for standalone backends

All backends should have a BackendType to enable statistics reporting
per BackendType.

Add a new BackendType for standalone backends, B_STANDALONE_BACKEND (and
alphabetize the BackendTypes). Both the bootstrap backend and single
user mode backends will have BackendType B_STANDALONE_BACKEND.

Author: Melanie Plageman <melanieplageman@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Andres Freund <andres@anarazel.de>
Discussion: https://www.postgresql.org/message-id/CAAKRu_aaq33UnG4TXq3S-OSXGWj1QGf0sU%2BECH4tNwGFNERkZA%40mail.gmail.com