Refactor LogicalTapeSet/LogicalTape interface.

Refactor LogicalTapeSet/LogicalTape interface.

All the tape functions, like LogicalTapeRead and LogicalTapeWrite, now
take a LogicalTape as argument, instead of LogicalTapeSet+tape number.
You can create any number of LogicalTapes in a single LogicalTapeSet, and
you don't need to decide the number upfront, when you create the tape set.

This makes the tape management in hash agg spilling in nodeAgg.c simpler.

Discussion: https://www.postgresql.org/message-id/420a0ec7-602c-d406-1e75-1ef7ddc58d83%40iki.fi
Reviewed-by: Peter Geoghegan, Zhihong Yu, John Naylor